September 15, 2018

Sensual Haven, Syracuse

 Mini-REAF Fundraiser

12 Hours of Amazing Experiences!

Limited to 75 attendees. Tickets must be purchased in advance. This is a private home, and directions/parking instructions will be sent to all ticket holders.

Dinner Menu: Carribbean pulled pork, Jamaican jerk chicken, smoked beef brisket, vegetarian black bean/veggie burger. A variety of vegan and vegetarian salads and sides will be available; grilled veggies, green salad, pasta salad, salsa bar. Dessert is Cuban lime pie and tropical tortes.

Dungeon Rules: You must be vetted by any local BDSM play group to enter the dungeon. You MUST HAVE attended a dungeon party prior to Mini-REAF. We expect everyone to treat our home, our guests, and their belongings with respect. If you see a scene that is making you uncomfortable, check with Susie or Otter. We have blankets available for aftercare, as well as chux and wipes. Please ask Susie or Otter before you do fireplay, wax, extreme impact or blood play. No swapping of body fluids please.

Schedule of Activities: Pool and hot tub are open all day/night. The dungeon is open 8-12 pm. The listed activities, except for the dungeon, are open to all ticket holders, whether vetted or not. ALL ACTIVITIES are scheduled for approximately one hour unless noted otherwise. Schedule is still being tweaked, with more to come!

12:00 Doors Open

12:30 Class: Rope Play 101 (Athena Kali)
12:30 Class: Fire Cupping (BallerinaGoddess)

1:30 Boobie Painting (Otter)

2:00 Class: Sadistic Rope Play (Danger Dan)
2:00 Class: Training Your Service Submissive (Mistress Medusa and Lady Tessa)

3:00 Fruit and Cheese Buffet
3:00 Lube Wrestling and Lube Sliding

3:30 Teddy Bear Picnic for Littles and Bigs (Brina)
3:30 (K)issing Booth

4:00 No Cane, No Gain (Bellona)

5:00 Rummage Sale (Lazer) from 5-7 pm

6:00 Dinner

7:30 Rummage Sale auctions off what is left

8:00 Door Prize Drawings

8:30 Self Suspension Ballet Performance (BallerinaGoddess)

9:30 Moonlight Tarot Readings
9:30 Naked Dancing around the Bonfire

10:00 Vacuum Bed

12:00 Event Ends

ART: 2018 REAF Digital Erotic Art Show and more!

The 2017 Cinekink, REAF and Sensuosity Digital Erotic Art Shows will be shown on HDTV. Susie and Otter's personal collection of erotic art will also be on display.


Performances and activities will be added as they are confirmed.

Lube Wrestling and Slide

Lube Wrestling
LUBE WRESTLING and our new LUBE SLIDE are open to all attendees. Please bring a pair of socks and 2 towels if you plan to get lubed. Showers will be available for clean up.

Pool and Hot Tub

Hot Tub and Pool
POOL and HOT TUB will be open all day and evening for your pleasure. Please bring your own towel. Tub, pool area, bonfire, and inside the house is clothing optional.

Self Suspension Ballet

Self Suspension and Ballet Performance
PERFORMANCE of Self Suspension and Ballet by BallerinaGoddess

Body Paint Prints

Make a print with your boobies!
Make an art print using your boobs or other body parts and finger paint! This fun activity will be led by Otter, of course!

Teddy Bear Picnic

Teddy Bear Picnic
Littles and Bigs: Bring your stuffies and wear your favorite outfit as you join us for snacks, juice, a fun activity, and story time! Hosted by Brina and her Daddy.

Naked Dancing

Dancing naked around the fire
Dance naked or clothed to the beat of drums around the fire

(K)issing Booth

Kissing Booth
Use your imagination to transform this (K)issing Booth into something more naughty and fun!

Fruit Buffet

Fruit and Cheese Girl
Somewhere under all that fruit and cheese is a beautiful person!

Art on Display

Art from REAF shows
Enjoy art from past Rochester Erotic Art Festivals on display, on the walls and on HDTV.


Additional workshops will be added as they are confirmed.

Sadistic Rope Play

Sadistic Rope Play
Danger Dan will be demonstrating some sadistic play techniques, basic safety, materials, methods, and aftercare with ties designed to inflict pain and discomfort. Bring your rope to tie along, or just soak up some ideas for later.

Training Your Service Submissive

Service Submissive
Mistress Medusa and Lady Tessa from RocDommes will offer their guidance on how to get the most satisfying service out of your submissive(s).

Fire Cupping

Fire Cupping
Let BallerinaGoddess introduce you to Fire Cupping. Cold glass cups and fire create a strong suction on the skin, stimulating energy flow and relaxing tight muscles with a delicious sensual warmth.

Rope Play 101

Athena Kali
Athena Kali will teach the foundations of shibari rope, including basic connection and safety, rope types to use, and a few starting ties. This is a hands on class; bring 1-2 lengths of at least 15 ft of rope if you have it. We will have some rope available to borrow.

No Cane, No Gain!

Bellona will share her passion for canes, covering materials and design, care, cleaning and storage; safety; properties of impact; and methods, styles and techniques. For all experience levels.


Lazer will be hosting her 4th annual kinky rummage sale  to benefit REAF from 5 - 8 pm. Sales will be cash or credit and all will be final.

Got some neat stuff you don't really want anymore? Want to donate it to benefit REAF? Great, we'll take it! New and gently used items - past sales have included things like lingerie & fetishwear, toys, jewelry, shoes, knickknacks, art, dungeon furniture, and more... anything kinky, sensual, or erotic that you no longer have use for. No used insertables or panties, please.
Simply contact Lazer via fetmail (@_Lazer_) or email ( and let her know you have something to donate. She will work with you to arrange delivery of your items to the sale.


Your entry pass will include 20 raffle tickets for our fabulous door prizes. You may put your tickets in the drawings you are most interested in. Photos will be posted shortly!


Q. What should I wear?
A. Please wear street clothes until you are on the property, then anything you like! Fetishwear encouraged. Changing room provided.

Q. Can I just show up at the door?
A. Tickets must be purchased online prior to the event. This is a private home, and directions/parking instructions will be sent to all ticket holders. Attendance is limited to 75 people.


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